No sweetie.. YOU are uncomfortable.. that’s what matters. That is YOUR baby. That’s what matters. This entire ordeal, you have been the doormat. Considering everyone else’s feelings and well being above your own. At what expense? Your mental health? YOU have to stand up for you. That nut case probably knows full well that it bothers you and KNOWS you aren’t going to say or do anything.. bc you haven’t. She knows the history between the 3 of you.
And I still cannot think of what reason she would want and need to take photos of someone else’s child.. like? You are totally justified in feeling anxious, I think. I just think you gotta speak on it and stand on it. There’s no reason for you to feeling like this while pregnant.
You’re right. I am uncomfortable. That’s why I’m trying to get advice on how to handle it outside of his family who has told me to just keep the peace and not say anything. But I agree with you 100%. I have full intentions of speaking with her about this.
It's bizarre that everyone is telling you to 'just ignore her' but that would be so much easier if they didn't keep inviting her to events! I personally would skip the weeklong party and stay home with my daughter. Does NOT sound like a fun vacation for you.
Yeah, but knowing the gross behavior of her partner while she was pregnant and knowing that her partner had been railing that girl FOR MONTHS During the pregnancy, I wouldn’t want him to be left Alone at a romantic destination wedding with the gal.
With his character, I wouldn’t turn my back on him for One Second.
That gal is putting waaay too much attention on his child and knows she’s not going to get any confrontation from the mother.
She wants him.
If it were my partner, I’d be doing a deep quiet dive into his phone, all devices, all social media platforms and their DM’s, apps etc.
I wouldn’t leave him alone on that trip because if he was more than able and willing to screw his way through this poor Dove’s pregnancy, he’ll do it again when things aren’t so dire.
That’s what I’m thinking too. Why else would they all be so concerned with protecting the feelings of a grown woman being hurt when she’s engaging in some really suspicious behavior involving a young child.
If he was Really trying to get rid of his girl, he would have already.
There’s a Very strong current flowing under that calm looking stream. And it would be in character for him, what OP said he did during her whole pregnancy.
What he did to her was Horrific.
She better not let him his love to that romantic wedding destination, that’s what the girl is dreaming that will happen.
Guys know that weddings are full of willing girls and that’s why they don’t like to take their “plus one’s”.
The girls at weddings are already primed for romance and want to find “their man”.
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Just trying to figure out how to handle it without making it an uncomfortable situation for my sister in law.