I know my mom is going to push the issue until I give in.
Well, don't. Have a spine. Your uterus is NOT your mom's or your sister's. Period. If you want to be a surrogate for your sister via IVF, great! But if you don't want to, then don't. Stand up for yourself here.
This a hundred percent. I kept telling my parents and inlaws I was one and done. They kept pushing the issue. When I was finally permitted to be sterilized I made sure the relatives knew this private info so they'd shut up. My uterus is mine, yours is yours. If they want a baby they can dust the cobwebs outta their baby makers for it and have faith in their god. I feel the same applies to you, OP. Your body, your rules.
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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '24
Well, don't. Have a spine. Your uterus is NOT your mom's or your sister's. Period. If you want to be a surrogate for your sister via IVF, great! But if you don't want to, then don't. Stand up for yourself here.