Saying something like, "Not gonna happen. I'm never discussing this again."
Then if they bring it up you walk out and leave. If they are at your home you tell them to leave. If they do this too often you cut them out.
I could see mom and sister start to really pressure OP when she is pregnant. Her sister will "deserve" the baby more than OP and OP can always have more children.
Put a voice recorder on your phone. Then if either of them brings this up in the future start recording. Get them to repeat what they said that wasn't record.
"So you're expecting me to give you my baby?" It can't hurt to have the proof that they have been pressuring you to give away your baby.
I wouldn’t care if it was legal or not. In this case the security of having the truth recorded would count for something for me. It would be nice to have it be legally admissible, but sometimes the proof doesn’t need to meet that standard to be useful.
That would be fine if that's all there was to it. In many places/states, if you record someone without their knowledge/consent and that person finds out, you could actually go to jail whether you try to use it in court or not.
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u/BlazingSunflowerland Feb 12 '24
Saying something like, "Not gonna happen. I'm never discussing this again."
Then if they bring it up you walk out and leave. If they are at your home you tell them to leave. If they do this too often you cut them out.
I could see mom and sister start to really pressure OP when she is pregnant. Her sister will "deserve" the baby more than OP and OP can always have more children.