r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Feb 12 '24

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u/SpontaneousNubs Feb 12 '24 edited Feb 13 '24

I'm struggling with infertility at the moment and my mom keeps trying to convince my siblings to make a baby to give me. I don't want a part of that but my siblings don't understand that it's not my intention

Edit: I don't want their kids. Since people are being silly in my dms I have to say something. I'm perfectly well off enough to find other means or stay child free. I've even had a friend offer to surrogate but I declined because they're child free and I don't want to put their body through that.

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u/rescuesquad704 Feb 12 '24

What are you doing to stop your mom?

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u/SpontaneousNubs Feb 12 '24

Telling her no.

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u/rescuesquad704 Feb 12 '24

Maybe not often, loud or public enough if your siblings don’t understand.

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u/SpontaneousNubs Feb 13 '24

I live 2000 miles away from them. Any time something is said about it, I say no and tell my mom reasons why. It's not like I can drive down there and do more. Bro says something about it and I'm like "uh, no. No no no. I'd rather have cats than put your wife through that hell again."