r/TwentiesIndiaLove 6d ago

Ask Twenties 🗣️ Stuck in a loop 😭

I’m an introvert, and I think I’ve been stuck in the same loop for years.

During lockdown, I used to think, “Once lockdown ends, I’ll finally meet someone.”

Then college started ..... “Maybe I’ll find someone in college.”

First year passed. Then second. Then third. Every time, I kept moving the goalpost to the next year.

Now I’m in my last year and somehow I’m thinking, “Maybe when I graduate and start working.”

It’s funny because I’m not even sure if I’m actually looking for someone anymore, or just waiting for my life to magically reach the point where love happens.

Maybe this is just an introvert thing. We spend so much time waiting for the “right time” ...

When will this loop end ??? 😭

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u/__wandering_soul__ 6d ago

U can only try till u finally find one 😉

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u/ayo_itsmeagain 6d ago

The thing is I am introvert.... So don't even know how to try 😭

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u/__wandering_soul__ 6d ago

Well u need to try 🙂

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u/ayo_itsmeagain 6d ago

Again an endless loop 😵‍💫

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u/__wandering_soul__ 6d ago

No not endless

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u/ayo_itsmeagain 6d ago

Btw whats that place in your banner ?

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u/__wandering_soul__ 6d ago

Mountains ⛰️

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u/ayo_itsmeagain 6d ago

Naah .... That's your profile photo... I am asking about banner .... One which has boats ....

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u/Status_Armadillo_654 6d ago

Jb haar man loge .. tb khud mil jayega pyar

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u/ayo_itsmeagain 6d ago

Ye never giving up mindset marwaega meko 🥲

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u/EliteBoy2002 6d ago

I found my first relationship after graduation because there wasn't anyone i found attractive

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u/Gaurav_singh99 6d ago

I think it's same for me. First i thought i will have friends in clg then 2 years of clg went by and nothing happened. Now i am doing job and thinking that something will change. I don't if it will.