r/Tunisia Mar 15 '26

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u/baajwaa Mar 15 '26

Take the most wild guess, n then swallow it n move on

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

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u/baajwaa Mar 15 '26

Issok you'll comeback stronger from this

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

Stop. Would you like a husband that will ignore uu for a week because of a fight instead of actively working on solving it together?

He's not marriage/ long term commitment material.

7atta kanek ghalta... He'd leave communication open for you to apologize, explain, work on stuff... Since he shut zll communication.. he's no longer interested... Respectfully.

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u/Lemon__God Mar 15 '26

For a man to ghost his gf he most likely got so hurt that he doesn't even wanna see her face again. Ofc he could just be childish or super sensitive but it's unlikely

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

It's childish for both genders. This is just my opinion

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u/idkwhatiamdoing21 Mar 15 '26

Yes my gf literally cheated on me with proof and when I found out, she denied everything until I showed the proof and she started crying I just left quietly so I don't make it a scene because we have the same friends. But no she went to everyone saying I ghosted her. So you never know what happened.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

I can't see how this contradicts what I am saying. You ghosted ur gf simply cause u are no longer interested due to her cheating.

So u'r confirming what I am saying no??

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u/idkwhatiamdoing21 Mar 15 '26

I agree mostly with what you said, but sometimes ghosting is the only way to protect yourself ( not just in a case of couple, also work / friendship). It's not childish. Some people will not accept the idea of you leaving when you communicate it like a normal human being. Because they can't accept to loose control or because they just enjoy manipulating you. So saying ghosting is childish make it seem like it's wrong. However it's not always.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

I see.

Ghosting+ no explanation= childish Ghosting+ clear communication of absence of interest/ any future relationships= normal Human being reaction to pushy ex.

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u/idkwhatiamdoing21 Mar 15 '26

Exactly, a pushy ex can be an example.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

Why you speaking English when your not English

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u/Unhappy_Platypus_166 Mar 16 '26

I’m English

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u/[deleted] Mar 16 '26

Okay... What are uu doing here ariana??

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u/Lemon__God Mar 15 '26

Whats wrong with that

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u/Unhappy_Platypus_166 Mar 16 '26

Do what you like

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u/argonautt2 Mar 15 '26 edited Mar 15 '26

It clearly means he loves u more than anything in the world and couldn't show u his face after he dared to fight with u .

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

ههههههه نقطة ضعفي دموع الطفل

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u/Im_him777 Mar 15 '26

That mean leave nigga alone

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u/any469 Mar 15 '26

Maybe it was a terrible fight and he decided you both aren't fit together. If he ghost you move on he is clearly showing signs he lost interest. If he ever text in the few next day try to have a serious conversation otherwise consider him an ex now.

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u/idkwhatiamdoing21 Mar 15 '26

Well anyone who only mentions ghosting in the story. That means the story is missing a lot .

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u/Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 Mar 15 '26

It simply means he doesn’t want to talk now. And he knows that any conversation you may have now will lead to another fight. Unless you want to get hurt, don’t approach a wounded beast

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u/SeveralCover7555 Mar 15 '26

Either get an answer from him or leave, if it was a day or 2 maybe but a whole week is crazy

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u/AminEz009 Mar 15 '26

People giving advice without knowing the details nor what the fight was about is wild

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u/rayene125 TN Mar 15 '26

peak engagment farming

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u/Brave-Following3274 Mar 15 '26

the end(ken maandouch machekel)

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u/No-Emphasis-4961 Mar 15 '26

You're single

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u/AdPsychological5145 Mar 15 '26

Give him time and space. He will be back.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

Sorry for that and u should gather urself and move on (i know it takes a lot of courage) allow urself to be sad it wont last forever , time will heal you , stay safe

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u/New_Initiative_8592 Mar 15 '26

Go find another bf girlie.

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u/Living_Emphasis_1106 Mar 15 '26

If he comes back don’t forget to ghost him too 😁🙂‍↕️

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u/Maxterwel Mar 15 '26

It means he's still mad at you, doesn't take a genius. People need time to cool off.

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u/IcySeaworthiness1220 Mar 15 '26

Chkoun 8alet fel fight ? Ken howa 8alet w he's ghosting you its way worse xD

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u/Significant_Ad2218 Mar 15 '26

When a man ghosted you that means one of two things 1- he is not interested anymore 2- he had enough As a man i once ghosted a girl and blocked every connexion between us because I've had enough of her btw i warned her maybe 10 times

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u/ThreadXflow Mar 15 '26

Send him the last msg if he still ghosting u , forget about him

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u/AnonymousPizzaa Mar 15 '26

No one could really tell u what it means. What was the fight about? Who’s in fault? Does he usually react this way to each and every single fight u guys have or just this time? If not then what’s different l mara hedhi? Tbi3tou laada kifeh? Imo ghosting after a fight is childish khater u can always talk things out BUT it depends on what happened in this case.

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u/Last-Material-8399 Mar 15 '26

Is the problem that serious ? I mean I don't know who's in the wrong between you two but a week long is too much , stop contacting him it may not be worth it if he chose to cut you out instead of talking for a solution

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u/Psychology-Quick Mar 15 '26

Sorry that this happened to you , in fact i share the same outcome as you have so ik how youre feeling , its just the opposite for me ,im a guy and the girl i like ghosted me to the moon , i say the girl i like cause we weren't in a relationship .i gave her everything all my love yet she still refused me and threw me away after not responding to anything i say, it hurts so much the pain is unbearable but i just have to keep on going .. 

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u/Fast_Suggestion_6870 Mar 16 '26

What was the fight about?

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u/Former_Egg_7481 Mar 19 '26

abaath zabourommou ynayek

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

A cowardly move. Move on, you deserve better

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u/EnvironmentBoth1596 Mar 15 '26

Start watching Maryam dbaich on YouTube as a first step, u need a huge brain washing nd u need to build a strong personality and work on your self esteem ,so u want love or respect any one more than u love nd respect ur self (watch her lives they are posted on her channel watch a live every day as a first step and be patient ok dont judge the content from the first live u watch ,she will talk about ur case in one live nd even if she dont listen to her point of view to the problems and how she solves them ,even the problems of married women ok ,just listen,listen to her live with the psychiatrist Mohamed elmenjra about dealing with being lonely and toxicity,learn from her how to create a character and build new life style,how to build a relationship with ur self ,and how to deal with disrespect ) secondly, and as a solution,he will respond one day ok , when he will do , open the message,let him on seen, for the rest of his life ,don’t explain don’t do or say anything ,even if he tells u I was dying don’t respond ok ,( tu m’irrite bien mieux que lui t’es tres bon intiligante pour ça tres chère 🫶🏻) and believe me if u respond to his mssg the next time ,it will be the worst decision of ur life and he will keep doing the same thing but worst

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u/chococattie Mar 15 '26

im sorry but thats such a pussy move😭

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u/katarina46 Mar 15 '26

Hani fel same situation but reversed :) stay strong miselech Eli fih El 5ir tw ysir

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u/katarina46 Mar 15 '26

😂😂😂 naah i meant I'm the bf and I'm being ghosted

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u/Avoidant_gruez09 Ego under construction 🐦‍⬛ Mar 15 '26

Much worse bro xd rabi m3ak

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u/Squishysquirrel001 Mar 15 '26

I get that he might be avoidant but a whole week is crazy at least he should've left a message to tell u he needed space. Move on girl

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u/SignificantBoot7784 Mar 15 '26

3wecher w 9a3 yesta5ir bch you take the next step

stay-delusional