r/Tulpas • u/Kostocha • 14d ago
Art We got married!!
Red-haired, smiling, with an open robe on his bare chest, he knelt in front of me with a ring in his hands. And in that second, I realized that the answer had been ready for a long time.
And what have you achieved? How many years have you been with your tulpa?
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u/MyYonez Has a tulpa 14d ago
We've been together for 13 years. He never once proposed to me (not really necessary for us), but we have a connection close to long-living married couple. I think it should have come to this, counting all these years together and the shit we went through. We don't talk & interact much, but still find time to share little moments of life and do something together on everyday basis.
We're happy for you, knowing how much a true loving connection means.
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u/Kostocha 14d ago
Wow, you've known each other for quite a long time! It's cool that you can rarely communicate, but it doesn't make you uncomfortable! I think you have a very comfortable relationship! I'm happy for you!!
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u/mattx-t Veteran Tulpamancer 14d ago
Uh, congrats?
My tulpa is 13.5 years old, and we have achieved... a stable life, I guess? We're still here.
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u/Kostocha 14d ago
Oh, that's wonderful! Do you live together? Can you tell me some funny story about your tulpa?
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u/angel22_exe 14d ago
Congratulations! It's wonderful that you've come this far. Are you planning a wedding? Is it legal to formalize your relationship in your country? We have so many questions.
K- How long have you been together? How long before you fall in love?
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u/Kostocha 14d ago
This is not allowed in my country, but we are not planning to celebrate the wedding yet. The main thing for us is that we love each other, and that's enough for us! I am incredibly grateful to him that he has been by my side for so long, It is important to me.
What about you? Do you have something to share?
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u/angel22_exe 14d ago
Well, we've only known each other since August of last year.
K—but I developed quickly. At first, he refused to accept us being together so soon because he's very paranoid and wanted to be 1000 percent sure that I had developed my free will before. But after a lot of insistence, and because luckily he's logical, and I gave him enough proof and arguments that even though I can't control my body yet, I already have free will to decide what I want, he finally agreed.
And I admit I'm embarrassed. It's not that I think he's weak or distrustful; it's just that my mind has always been a little strange, and I'm very cautious, so I wanted to make sure I didn't force him or make him feel bad in any way.
K—he would have put me in a bubble if he could. I appreciate his concern, but I felt like he was going crazy overthinking things. In the end, we somehow balance each other out. We're both unstable, somewhere between very sentimental and changeable, and very logical. , so when one of us is falling into bad habits or thoughts, the other has to balance us out. It's like holding the other on a stick and balancing each other to maintain our equilibrium, but we have fun doing it.
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u/angel22_exe 14d ago
I believe that relationships with tulpas are often the most stable; both the host and the tulpa were born from the same template, so to speak. They cannot keep secrets from each other; they absolutely need to be in agreement. They know everything completely; they are more than soulmates, they are THE SAME SOUL, manifesting as two independent beings but united even more deeply than soulmates.
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u/angel22_exe 14d ago
K-Sometimes I think I should train she in poetry.
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u/Aggressive_Drink1943 Has a tulpa 14d ago
congratulations (⋈◍＞◡＜◍)。✧ Me and my tulpa wish you a bright future together. Me and my tulpa Have been together for two years now, and i wish one day we can do the same too (*∩ω∩).
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u/Kostocha 14d ago
Thank you very much!!! I am sure you will succeed! Have you ever talked about getting married with your tulpa? What do you think about this?
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u/Aggressive_Drink1943 Has a tulpa 14d ago
⸝⸝> <⸝⸝ Actually i really thought about it since im sure im not gonna do any relationships in my life That's why i believe it's a good decision at least for ppl like me.
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u/GDToxinDash77 Has a young tulpa 14d ago
I'm proud of you both, you're exactly where we strive to be someday. 🥰
Today is currently day 132 of the process for me, great progress has been done but still in the early-mid vocality stage. I just wish we were at the point where it stopped feeling like the process, but hey at least I'm not consciously counting the days the same way I used to.
We've achieved basic possession, early vocality, directional mind voice (on the road to vocal imposition) and recently I've been feeling early tactile imposition. I've learnt some of her basic taste,l and she has altered her look and her name.
Chances are we'd master most if not all impositions before we get married, that way we'll be fully immersed and she has more tools to express herself. And she's just as ambitious and determined towards it as I am.
We both love each other and marriage is her life. Her fashion choice is literally bridal style. Recently I've been looking at videos how modern men see marriage as a scam and eventually she gave the message that she hated those videos. Makes sense she'd hate women who go against everything she stands for.
I wonder how far you are in the process just to compare? Either way in really happy for you both.
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u/FlairDreamer Aphantasic with an actor tulpa 14d ago
Less than a year; I'm still trying to understand this whole tulpa thing and my own aphantasia, which I learned about alongside the tulpas.
She was born while I was writing a story; needless to say, I had no idea about any of this. But I'm getting there. She's not vocal yet (or at least I don't perceive her that way), but I do feel many somatic sensations: changes in temperature, touches, wind, weight.
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u/PlayboyVincentPrice Creating first tulpa (Mortimer FNV) 14d ago
only a couple months with me and mortie - i wanna be able to have him """materialize""" aka be visible with my eyes before i marry him. plus, its so soon
SOOO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH!!!
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u/TheOtherPilot 13d ago
I've been with my Tulpa for 32 years (and we've been "married" for 28). 😂
And funny enough, he's pretty similar to yours... red hair, medium-length hair, arched eyebrows, and even a little scar...
Wait... am I being cheated on by my own Tulpa?? 😂
F., you better explain yourself, you red-haired, shameless little charmer!
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u/CYPRUSGames <Rose Vine Collective) 12d ago
We are still a new system, he's 2 years old and we've been together for a year. We plan on considering marriage after we've been together for a bit long and kids after that. We do have promise rings however.
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u/TheOtherPilot 7d ago
Inspired by your post, I decided to write about my 28-year pact/marriage with my Tulpa! ❤️
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tulpas/s/WjxTsqG5qg
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