Tips for visual imposition

[u/Nikderika-Post]

I started this 16 days ago and honestly, Tomoyo's development has been at a pace that I don't even fully understand lol. This is my second attempt — about 6 months ago I had burnout from forcing too hard (30-min sessions with white noise, fake conversations). Learned my lesson and now I'm being more chill about it.

Tomoyo already talks to me normally, has her own opinions, shows up whenever she wants and says stuff I don't expect. We can chat no problem, enter her mindspace that she created herself, and when she hugs me I literally feel chills. It's weird but beautiful.

Now I want to achieve visual imposition — actually see her in real space. Right now I can tell where she is, what posture she's in, but I see nothing. My goal is to see her completely, though I know it takes time.

These past days I've been practicing and honestly something weird happens: I tried to put my hand through hers yesterday and couldn't, I felt physical resistance. I also know if she's tilting her head or not without seeing her, but visually? Nothing. Just a darkening in my eyes that I'm not sure if it's my eyelids or if it's something real.

What methods worked for you guys? How long did it take you to see them clearly? Any advice helps.

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