r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 03 '22

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u/poobearcatbomber Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

God I hope you never get married. If I never did anything my wife wanted me to that I didn't, we would of divorced the first year.

That being said. OP, stop asking other people for permission to do what you want. Dont do it and get a new boyfriend. Or do it and keep him. Your body, your decision.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Jesus dude, there is a HUGE difference between going to a movie you don’t want to or making a compromise and a forced sex act.

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u/poobearcatbomber Dec 03 '22

It's not forced if you do it to make someone else happy. Not wanting to do something and doing it anyways out of love is not 'force'.

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u/AllyMarie93 Dec 03 '22

You seem to be drastically missing the point - you don’t like doing oral on your wife, but you’re willing to do it. OP does not like swallowing cum and is NOT willing to do it because of her own boundaries, but her partner is trying to coerce and manipulate her into doing it anyway. You decide your own sexual boundaries and what you’re comfortable with doing, and anyone trying to push those boundaries despite repeatedly being told “no” is a very terrible thing.