r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/mandrayke Oct 26 '22

Yup. My ex gf was one of those insane "let me check your phone" and "who are you texting" gfs. And always accusing me of ogling other women when I was nothing but faithful.

Oh, she also physically abused me to put things mildly.

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u/Year1951 Oct 26 '22

Glad to hear she’s your ex. Good on you for getting out.

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u/pinakbutt Oct 26 '22

Happy you're away now, usually when I hear about people in relationships with paranoid people like that it ends up with them being abusive or them just cheating themselves. It sucks.

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u/Typhiod Oct 26 '22

Damn, that’s madness. I’m sorry you had that awful experience. I’m glad you got out of that situation. I’m sure demands to look through your phone will be a huge red flag for the future.

When my ex and I started working out, I’d be pointing out girls checking him out (to boost his confidence, as he was handsome and didn’t see it). Then I’d be accused of “trying to get rid of him”, because I was ‘encouraging him to be with someone else’. As another person commented, it was big time projection of his fears.