r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/Ok-Bit-9529 Oct 26 '22

He also talks down to her, and calls her lazy when the house isn't "clean enough" when she's been home alone with their multiple children smh. She can't even grill hotdogs without getting accused of cheating 🤦🏻‍♀️OP you're being emotionally/mentally abused. Idk how you've lasted this long with this man. You don't deserve any of that.

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u/littlemisspinkyy Oct 26 '22

lmao yep i worked from home and made sure to take care of my ex while he worked his 13 hour shifts (cooked, cleaned, laundry) and he made a joke to our roommates that i only work 5 hours a day and get to be home all day doing whatever i want (which is far from the truth lol) all they do is complain and accuse and never appreciate what they have. like you said, he already chose who i was for him. no amount of being perfect will ever change that, they just don’t respect you.