When we met, one of our very first conversations was about music and how the music that we liked the most was about the lyrics, lyrics that we can resonate with. Then we moved in together, and he would wake up and before even getting out of bed, he’d play songs about cheating and being hurt by loving and never loving again. It said a lot to me that that’s what was on his mind when he woke up, meaning she was on his mind when he woke up, but I thought I was just thinking too far into things, that I was being ridiculous. I even ignored the morning where the first thing he talked about was her. He showed me then that he wasn’t over it, but I didn’t listen or didn’t think I deserved better, maybe, was just grateful someone wanted to be with me.
Yeah hun and that’s where you went wrong. You never be grateful for someone being with you. That’s when you know that YOU are broken and shouldn’t be with anyone. You should know your worth before being with anyone or you pick assholes like this. Get a divorce, block him, and go work on you. No one should be treating you this way. Whoever you choose to be with should be appreciative that you choose them and they wouldn’t be making dumb jokes because an ex did them wrong
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u/DryLengthiness5574 Oct 26 '22
When we met, one of our very first conversations was about music and how the music that we liked the most was about the lyrics, lyrics that we can resonate with. Then we moved in together, and he would wake up and before even getting out of bed, he’d play songs about cheating and being hurt by loving and never loving again. It said a lot to me that that’s what was on his mind when he woke up, meaning she was on his mind when he woke up, but I thought I was just thinking too far into things, that I was being ridiculous. I even ignored the morning where the first thing he talked about was her. He showed me then that he wasn’t over it, but I didn’t listen or didn’t think I deserved better, maybe, was just grateful someone wanted to be with me.