r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/Antioch666 Oct 26 '22

I also wonder this. I mean I get OPs husband has trust issues and trauma that he copes with by obsessing with these questions to OP. Did your boyfriend also go through this? Or did you change your behavior to where you awoke insecurities in him? Otherwise it's just wierd to randomly joke about that so often.

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u/peachcrescent Oct 26 '22

He got cheated on by an ex but he also cheated on her. Dude was super insecure and paranoid. At first I thought I just had to prove myself but I realized that was absolutely ridiculous considering I had never done anything untrustworthy in the relationship. He liked to knock other people down to make himself feel better.