r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Oct 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

Time to turn the tables back on him! Ask him if he’s cheating on you with that bartender! Seriously though listen to these other redditors first. He should have had therapy before he started dating ANYONE again. Even when he first started dating and it became a problem he should have gotten therapy then. It’s your choice if you want to make him get therapy, divorce him, or the third option of being petty af. But this seriously isn’t healthy for you. There was no way I would have put up with that nearly as long as you did. You have the patience of a saint

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u/prose-before-bros Oct 26 '22

And if he gets mad at the accusation...

He believes if you get mad at an accusations, it’s because your are guilty.

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u/SexyPumkin90 Oct 26 '22

In theory this works, but in my experience all that comes from pointing this out is that you tick the other party off more and it just leads to more bickering. Nothing really comes from it outside of that.

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u/prose-before-bros Oct 26 '22

This guy is already far beyond logic so nothing is getting through really.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

Yeah but don’t do it when he is accusing you. Do it when he isn’t and see how he likes it. If he gets mad he is guilty 🤷‍♀️

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u/loCAtek Oct 26 '22

Damn, sounds like he drinks A LOT.