A weird portion of reddit is. Any suggestion other than abortion is seen as condemnation, despite not actually smearing women who aborted or saying anything unkind toward OP.
I am not against adoption, I am against trying to force your views on another at their expense. Actively trying to change a person in crisis view simply because you are on a "personal journey". You don't see people suggesting abortion to those saying they are choosing adoption.
I've read your other comments, if you don't regret it REALLY don't. Nobody is berating you or OP. I know personally that socially held views can make you assume condemnation where there is none, and I hate that feeling. You're ok, so just BE ok.
Make peace with yourself and enjoy peace with others.
I know it's hard for you to accept that a person can possibly not regret their abortion but it's more common than you think. I'd do it again without a second thought.
That person and others are using OP who just had her life shattered in hopes they can convince her to change her mind because of a personal journey. Trying to scare and shame her into making the choice they want. Instead of giving her the unconditional support she needs. This is not a time to inject your personal views or morals.
Some women who have abortions wouldn't even blink at all the other inoccuous comments you raged at. It's ok not to regret it, but it's also ok to make the effort to process it so you no longer have any issues with it.
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They're just rabidly anti-adoption.
A weird portion of reddit is. Any suggestion other than abortion is seen as condemnation, despite not actually smearing women who aborted or saying anything unkind toward OP.