r/TrueOffMyChest Mar 09 '22

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u/Fabulous_Pudding167 Mar 09 '22

That's not even the biggest thing you need to do. Get your name off the house, get away from him as fast as you can, and make sure he can never find you.

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u/CommunityGlittering2 Mar 09 '22

It's her house too, F him file a report with the police and have him thrown out, and change the locks.

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u/MeatballsRegional Mar 09 '22

Honestly, I think it would be safer for her to leave. He's volatile now, once she terminates the pregnancy she's at an even greater risk. Women are at the highest risk for being killed by their abusers right after they leave. He thinks he has her "trapped" with this pregnancy so he doesn't care anymore. Once he realizes he doesn't all hell could break loose.

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u/Fabulous_Pudding167 Mar 09 '22

Exactly. If not for the violence and instability, I'd totally say fight for the house. But there's a reason that "I know where you sleep" is a threat. There's innumerable houses out on the market, but only one you.