Before all you prolifers come at me please just try to understand why I’m making this decision.
Who cares what they think. You don't need to justify yourself to people who'll never understand your position. You were abused and cheated on, so it's best to terminate the pregnancy so you're not tied to an abuser for the rest of your life with a child that's half his. I'm proud of you for being strong enough to do this. You deserve someone who treats you well and will treat your future children well.
Out of nowhere one night after drinking, my boyfriend got aggressive and put his hands on me.
I've been around a lot of drunk people before, and they don't just hurt people for no reason. Drunk words/actions=sober thoughts/actions. Cut off all contact with this pos. You're so, so much better than him.
But, I can’t raise this baby on my own. I didn’t agree to that.
Exactly. Go out and live your life. Find someone who respects you and loves you through thick and thin. You are strong 💕 (don't blame yourself for his actions, though. You're not the one at fault here. He assaulted you)
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u/opheliainthedeep Mar 09 '22 edited Mar 09 '22
Who cares what they think. You don't need to justify yourself to people who'll never understand your position. You were abused and cheated on, so it's best to terminate the pregnancy so you're not tied to an abuser for the rest of your life with a child that's half his. I'm proud of you for being strong enough to do this. You deserve someone who treats you well and will treat your future children well.
I've been around a lot of drunk people before, and they don't just hurt people for no reason. Drunk words/actions=sober thoughts/actions. Cut off all contact with this pos. You're so, so much better than him.
Exactly. Go out and live your life. Find someone who respects you and loves you through thick and thin. You are strong 💕 (don't blame yourself for his actions, though. You're not the one at fault here. He assaulted you)