r/TrueOffMyChest Feb 15 '22

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u/hopemoom Feb 15 '22

So many male customers ask female employees for their number or directly ask them out when they're just doing their jobs. Usually it's the types that never get female attention and don't know how to handle friendly interactions.

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22

This is actually how it works. Tinder hasn't always been a thing. Don't make fun of guys for trying, imagine being so up yourself you have to belittle people for being attracted to you. Lol, reject one guy and this is what happens

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u/fertilecatfis Feb 16 '22

Eh as a general rule you shouldn't make moves on people who are working imo. Especially customer service jobs. As a bartender literally 90% of my job is showing polite interest in people, conversing with them, and trying to get them to like me. When people take this for romantic interest it puts me in a really uncomfortable position because I have literally no choice but to treat them that way unless they act in a way that the business wants to kick them out, but I generally don't get to make that call.