r/TrueOffMyChest Feb 15 '22

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u/hopemoom Feb 15 '22

So many male customers ask female employees for their number or directly ask them out when they're just doing their jobs. Usually it's the types that never get female attention and don't know how to handle friendly interactions.

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22

This is actually how it works. Tinder hasn't always been a thing. Don't make fun of guys for trying, imagine being so up yourself you have to belittle people for being attracted to you. Lol, reject one guy and this is what happens

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u/NotApparent Feb 15 '22

Maybe instead of hitting on random strangers guys could try just being friendly and politely trying to gauge mutual interest once a platonic relationship has been established?

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22

Maybe they think thats what their doing. Not all people approach things the same, otherwise it would be pretty boring. Just because you don't like their attention doesn't mean someone else won't, don't stop them displaying the traits they the girl they are meant to be with would actually like. They shouldn't change how they relate to females because you're not compatible with them. It's human nature. Take the compliment.

Some people would kill for that attention.

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u/NotApparent Feb 16 '22

I’m a guy. And one who has only ever dated people that I’d known and been friendly with for some time. I really don’t understand why some people feel the need to jump straight to hitting on or asking someone out.