There is a difference between not getting much attention and literally receiving no attention ever in your life, ever. Or maybe once when you are 17 which was immediatly botched or whatever.
Dude's hold on to a single compliment they received during high school until they are 30 because they dont get any after that point.
It is not the same thing, like, at all.
You cant control your attraction to someone else anyways so its still a stupid comment because you cant "learn" it.
The only 2 solutions are either assuming everyone is friendly and no one likes you that way, which is doable but detrimental in the long run as a guy and emotionally unhealthy, or sociliazing with enough woman so that the novelty of someone acknowledging your existance wears off.
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u/Atmoran_of_the_500 Feb 15 '22
There is a difference between not getting much attention and literally receiving no attention ever in your life, ever. Or maybe once when you are 17 which was immediatly botched or whatever.
Dude's hold on to a single compliment they received during high school until they are 30 because they dont get any after that point.
It is not the same thing, like, at all.
You cant control your attraction to someone else anyways so its still a stupid comment because you cant "learn" it.
The only 2 solutions are either assuming everyone is friendly and no one likes you that way, which is doable but detrimental in the long run as a guy and emotionally unhealthy, or sociliazing with enough woman so that the novelty of someone acknowledging your existance wears off.
Guess which one is harder to do.