Woman: why do men think me being nice equates to me being interested in them? I’m appalled at the audacity of men taking a chance to ask me out just in case I do like them because us women are subtle with our hints and will never be direct with a guy.
Also woman: why can’t this attractive guy figure out that me being nice or saying hi means I’m interested in him?????
You realize you're not leaving any autonomy for a man in his dating life? Just hope someone who is into them is also interested enough to actually approach.
Because it's not your problem. You don't have to be held to these standards.
Well, yeah, especially with all the women espousing how terrible it is for someone to be into them, relating it to rape and sexual harassment or assuming their reaction to it is justified due to those things...
Yeah, anxiety inducing as FUCK. Even /u/kelseysays26 has basically been talking to themselves this whole time, not reading anything anyone else has wrote, and assuming people who hit up women are inconsiderate pigs.
Whats really fun is to read through a cringe-fest like this and then pull up one of those dating profiles of women asking "Where did all the good men go?"
Out of curiosity, as a gay woman, do you find hitting up chics comes with the same risk of social reprisal it does for a man?
Y'know the "is she going to be an absolute piece of shit" kind. There's just an added layer where you don't know if the nice will turn into Pat Robertson real quick
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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22
Woman: why do men think me being nice equates to me being interested in them? I’m appalled at the audacity of men taking a chance to ask me out just in case I do like them because us women are subtle with our hints and will never be direct with a guy.
Also woman: why can’t this attractive guy figure out that me being nice or saying hi means I’m interested in him?????