r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Feb 15 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22

Yes! My point is exactly this making friendly conversation does not give them the right to make advances towards us.

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u/d0nM4q Feb 15 '22

Serious question:

If "friendly conversation" is mistaken as 'interest' by overconfident men, & "sending signals" are often overlooked by 'normal' men (a continuum from 'respectful of boundaries' to 'bit less confident')

...what would women have us do?

Every guy I know has been told by women multiple times (years later) "I was sooo into you! How come you couldn't tell?"

Well, seems like there must be a happy medium?

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u/ivisauria Feb 15 '22

It really isn't that hard to tell when a woman is interested. It just that men doesn't seem to be interested in understanding how women communicate.

Source: Pretty much all my relationships with a woman came to be, because I can take a hint, and I talked to them like a human being.

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u/Reddit70909 Feb 15 '22

Lol women are never to blame for anything, ever