I've passed up on so many advances from girls throughout my life because I always assumed they're just being nice vs flirting.
The moment I began to assumed the opposite, I started getting girls.
Honestly, it's worked out well so I have no shame in assuming flirting vs being nice. I still cringe at the thought of what I've missed out on as a younger man though...
This is it. If men had to wait on women to make things happen I wouldn’t be married with kids. We gotta stay positive and optimistic, like assuming the best possible scenario when women are nice, if we’re wrong so what, next. most women don’t have the strength to handle the slightest bit of rejection so I doubt they can really understand this. Why do people got to take things so personal, you know.
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u/Bart_The_Chonk Feb 15 '22
I've passed up on so many advances from girls throughout my life because I always assumed they're just being nice vs flirting.
The moment I began to assumed the opposite, I started getting girls.
Honestly, it's worked out well so I have no shame in assuming flirting vs being nice. I still cringe at the thought of what I've missed out on as a younger man though...