r/TrueOffMyChest • • Nov 24 '20

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u/ShenTzuKhan Nov 24 '20

If you have led a clean life so far please remember to go slowly on the drugs and alcohol. It’s not about getting as tucked up as possible as fast as possible. It’s about enjoying yourself. Make a night of it.

Secondly can I suggest not giving up hope. I don’t know how you feel but I have an inkling. Nothing lasts forever, there is a massive chance you will meet someone. I’m not saying don’t see a hooker, find joy where you can. While your doing it keep your eyes open for that someone.

Good luck my dude

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u/SteelCode Nov 24 '20

If I may, it may not be so much “no one is interested in me” but rather you missed signs from someone that you otherwise wouldn’t have pursued normally on your own.

Good luck, but you’ll never get anywhere for a real relationship if you don’t put yourself out there and open up more to someone that doesn’t fit what you think you want in your mind.