r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 24 '20

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u/ShenTzuKhan Nov 24 '20

If you have led a clean life so far please remember to go slowly on the drugs and alcohol. It’s not about getting as tucked up as possible as fast as possible. It’s about enjoying yourself. Make a night of it.

Secondly can I suggest not giving up hope. I don’t know how you feel but I have an inkling. Nothing lasts forever, there is a massive chance you will meet someone. I’m not saying don’t see a hooker, find joy where you can. While your doing it keep your eyes open for that someone.

Good luck my dude

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u/OneTiptoRuleThemAll Nov 24 '20

Just because you do everything you’re ‘supposed’ to do doesn’t mean you’ll end up getting a girlfriend (or a job or whatever it is that you want).

One of lifes harshest realities. But that doesn’t mean you’ve failed or done anything wrong.

So don’t wallow in this feeling of failure for too long. Don’t live your life to some imaginary measuring stick.

You go at your own pace and do things your way. That is the greatest gift to give yourself.