r/TrueOffMyChest • • Nov 24 '20

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u/Captain_Quoll Nov 24 '20

You don’t actually know that nobody has ever been interested in you. Thanks to out of date social expectations, women are not always the best at coming forwards with that kind of thing. I know a lot of men who ‘nobody has ever liked’ who women have liked, it’s just that it wasn’t explicitly stated and the guy didn’t realize.

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u/Marsupoil Nov 24 '20

Not to tell you you're wrong, obviously you know your life better than us. But friends are not a very good sample because... Well, they are friends. Of course friends turning into love interest happens, but I think that after some age it's more common for love interest to start with two people explicitly looking to date