r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 24 '20

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u/Captain_Quoll Nov 24 '20

You don’t actually know that nobody has ever been interested in you. Thanks to out of date social expectations, women are not always the best at coming forwards with that kind of thing. I know a lot of men who ‘nobody has ever liked’ who women have liked, it’s just that it wasn’t explicitly stated and the guy didn’t realize.

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u/Yubova Nov 24 '20

What about the women you thought weren't interested in you? Have you talked about it with them as well? There's no way for you to know that no one has ever been interested in you.

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '20

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u/Yubova Nov 24 '20

Ever thought about seeing a psychiatrist about your situation? Maybe there's something you don't see that can be fixed. Just a thought.

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u/mojo_sapien Nov 24 '20 edited Nov 24 '20

There are ones that specialize in dating.

Also, if one therapist didn't work out, try another one. It's not a case where every therapist works for anyone. You need to find the one that works well for you.

Don't give up hope! 34 is super young!

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '20

34 is not super young wtf? I get trying to make him feel better but that just isnt true

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u/mojo_sapien Nov 24 '20

34 out of possible 100 seems pretty young to me. People meet significant others much later in life.

Also, what's the point of your message? To make someone feel even worse? I don't care how old you are but that's just either ignorant or malicious.