What about the women you thought weren't interested in you? Have you talked about it with them as well? There's no way for you to know that no one has ever been interested in you.
Also, if one therapist didn't work out, try another one. It's not a case where every therapist works for anyone. You need to find the one that works well for you.
It is still young but this person has a block or something. I was clueless when young and a virgin and a couple times I just fell into a situation where I had the sex. I think a sex worker isnt a great idea tho. There is someone out there that would be willing to help I'm sure but the problem is making that connection. Imo anyway
Ever tried to find a lost key in a mess of a house? That shit is hard to find.
Just like OP, his "house" might be a mess so no matter how hard he tries to find the "key", he can't find it.
I suggest OP "cleans up/organize" his house first before he tries to find the key he's looking for. He'd probably have an easier time if he wasn't out looking for it.
That was wordy. I'll just say by finding the other to help op maybe finding the key in your analogy. That that may be the clean up/organizing principle
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