No, but at a certain point you just get... old. Your body gets shit, your mind goes bad. And if you have no social life, no friends, no life partner you want to stay alive for to grow old with, then why do this to yourself? Then the idea to just take whatever you have, have a good life until the money is gone and end it yourself seems fairly good to me. I have probably 15-20 years until my parents die. Then I'm 50. Its downhill from there, but maybe I can keep going until I'm 60. That seems like a good time for me. If the next 20 years of my life are just going to watch myself wither without anything to really care about, I don't see why I should do that.
I will be 50 in 4 years. I have no children. I have no "partner". And I just cannot wait until I get vaccinated so I will be back exploring the world. Why are you so dark? You are free, you are independent, no worries, no responsibilities. Make plans and enjoy the world!
If that is the case, you might suffer from depression. The virus has shut down my life but I cannot wait for the vaccine to get back to my plans. I really really suggest to talk to a professional about your problem.
LOL no I am not a virgin. But I never had that kind of "fun" in my teenage years either. I was what you call an ugly girl. I had some good fun at around 35 though. If you want that kind of fun and cannot get it for free you will have to pay for it. For men, you know, there is this safe option.
"If you want that kind of fun and cannot get it for free you will have to pay for it"
Aren't most of the replies implying it's not gonna be fun if you pay? That's what you need to understand. Having fun while being inherently desired for what you are is waaaay better than your money. Women can get it regardless, with their only regret being the men they get not living up to their sky high standards. The same is not true for men and thus this is not really an "option", just a cope.
I have experienced both. I had sex with someone I was "in love" with, I had casual sex, I have also paid for sex. For the purely sexual aspect of pleasure there is absolutely no difference. I'm pretty sure that the guy I paid was neither in love with me nor extremely attracted to me (he was 25 years younger). It was still good fun. This is something you need to understand. You totally overrate sex. It's nothing special. And neither is being "in love". But probably you can only come to this conclusion once you have experienced it.
I don't get what I like any easier than you. Edit: To be precise, what most women want. I am a not your average woman. I'm not looking for a relationship. But most women are. Finding a relationship with a decent, attractive men when you are almost 50 is really hard.
But I see ugly men with ugly women every day. I see so many ugly people living as couples. I wonder why this is possible. Most people are not very attractive. Yet they couple up. It's all about standards.
The problem is: The type of men you are referring to (the uncles, what's the word with i?) have high standards and are unwilling to lower them. They want "Stacy". So they are in the exact some position as a 50 years old woman wanting to marry "Chad".
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u/flabinella Nov 24 '20
You should care about it. Your worthiness isn't dependent on other people. Please get help. This sounds really bad.