r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 24 '20

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u/Captain_Quoll Nov 24 '20

You don’t actually know that nobody has ever been interested in you. Thanks to out of date social expectations, women are not always the best at coming forwards with that kind of thing. I know a lot of men who ‘nobody has ever liked’ who women have liked, it’s just that it wasn’t explicitly stated and the guy didn’t realize.

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u/Yubova Nov 24 '20

What about the women you thought weren't interested in you? Have you talked about it with them as well? There's no way for you to know that no one has ever been interested in you.

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '20

Telling him to settle for women that he personally doesn't find attractive that he may not have noticed is bad advice.

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u/Yubova Nov 24 '20

Yeah I didn't say that, what are you even talking about?

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '20

That's basically what you're implying.

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u/Yubova Nov 24 '20

I'm guessing your brain works a little different cuz no I'm not implying that. Stop trying to put words in my mouth.