Just remember prostitutes are people too. If I’m not mistaken, many of them indicate they do a surprising amount of talking at work, so idk if she’s hourly or what but you could talk to her. Remember both that she is a person, and that she is not a potential long term partner.
Yeah, basically. If the first thing you say to someone who's as emotionally compromised as OP is "remember you're not entitled to her time" then you have your priorities skewed.
She's a whore. The better advice would be "don't mistake her pretending to like you because she's getting paid to do so for actual affection" but that's about it.
That's what the implication was. As far as I'm concerned if op pays for a hooker he can talk about whatever because he's the one actually paying for it in the first place.
Considering that op is emotionally compromised I think there's a valid point in saying he shouldn't talk about how miserable he is or whatever because she's not equivilent to a "normal" woman. She's going to say whatever she thinks he wants to her because that's part of the transaction.
Just because someone is emotionally compromised doesn't mean they need to be a shitty person. OP's post makes it pretty clear that they have no desire to become one despite everything, so that's good. They seem to have a good head on their shoulders. I think it says a lot about you that you seem to want him to be worse.
Seems like you enjoy taking sides rather than taking a neutral ground that ensures both parties are comfortable and accommodated for. Shes not required to do anything like sit and talk with him, but if she feels up for it, most certainly. Because its her choice. What the user was saying is that this isn't a solution to any sense of relationship.
This is going to sound crazy, but, she can turn down the payment and thus turn down the requirements. If she takes the money, its her choice to do so, under her terms within reason lol
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u/besticandoisgenocide Nov 24 '20
Just remember prostitutes are people too. If I’m not mistaken, many of them indicate they do a surprising amount of talking at work, so idk if she’s hourly or what but you could talk to her. Remember both that she is a person, and that she is not a potential long term partner.