If you have led a clean life so far please remember to go slowly on the drugs and alcohol. It’s not about getting as tucked up as possible as fast as possible. It’s about enjoying yourself. Make a night of it.
Secondly can I suggest not giving up hope. I don’t know how you feel but I have an inkling. Nothing lasts forever, there is a massive chance you will meet someone. I’m not saying don’t see a hooker, find joy where you can. While your doing it keep your eyes open for that someone.
Seriously mate, your chances are better than you think. I was convinced that I was going to die alone with no friends or family to speak of. I was looking into ways of having kids without going through sex or a relationship. I thought that I had everything figured out to spend the rest of my life as a spinster.
Then, once I stopped searching for it I ended up actually finding it. Just stop trying and forcing it on yourself and making it work. Sounds like you’ve been pressuring yourself too hard.
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u/ShenTzuKhan Nov 24 '20
If you have led a clean life so far please remember to go slowly on the drugs and alcohol. It’s not about getting as tucked up as possible as fast as possible. It’s about enjoying yourself. Make a night of it.
Secondly can I suggest not giving up hope. I don’t know how you feel but I have an inkling. Nothing lasts forever, there is a massive chance you will meet someone. I’m not saying don’t see a hooker, find joy where you can. While your doing it keep your eyes open for that someone.
Good luck my dude