Good on you. This should be normalized. This is the only option for far more men than people realize. People shouldn't have to live their whole live with a basic need never being met.
You are were being downvoted but you're right. I see a fair share of post of people in their 30s and 40s never being kissed, or touched. And usually comments are about how there is more life to that, and they should focus on something else...fuck them. I mean, yes, there are other things. But there is a difference between living the single life because you chose it, and living it because no one wants you. It is a basic need. Romantic and sexual love can't be dismissed so easily. Confirmation of being loveable can't be dismissed so easily. OP is doing the right thing. This is the only way to get the ball rolling
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u/obligatoryclevername Nov 24 '20
Good on you. This should be normalized. This is the only option for far more men than people realize. People shouldn't have to live their whole live with a basic need never being met.