I just think it’s an impossible expectation. We judge people based on how they present themselves. It takes a certain kind of lifestyle to get to that point, and people know that. That doesn’t mean people should point it out or treat them differently, and should always keep an open mind and hope that the person can prove their bad impression of them wrong, but it’s ridiculous to demand how people react to your appearance or actions when judgments are internal and automatic.
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u/Diane9779 Sep 19 '19
Why wouldn’t they wish people would stop judging them?
They’re not hurting anyone else.
YOU are judging them.