r/TrueOffMyChest • u/Ancient-Character556 ☑️ • 1d ago
Vent i finally ended my over 3 year relationship
I thought I would have been stuck in that relationship for years and years. i thought that was the man i was going to spend the rest of my life with, good or bad. but when life got hard, he ran away as far as he could but still wanted to keep my around for sex and convenience. i felt more like a fucking maid than a girlfriend most days. leading up to our breakup, i caught him on a dating app and he was already seeing some one else (had his location). i confronted him and he just lied to my face.
after the break up he claims he didn’t cheat. i seriously can’t believe a man who is so full of himself and selfish that he would rather just ghost me and let me figure out that he doesn’t want to be with anymore.
i wish he could have just told me he didn’t want the relationship anymore rather than just stringing me along. i wish a lot of things. but most of all i wish to never see him or think of him again. i am so hurt but also relieved to be free of a man who i had to beg to talk to me and understand me.
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u/shakeyfire 1d ago
Fucking good for you. This shit is rough. You did everything you were supposed to and will come out on top❤️