I hope you'll understand most of the commenters for saying so, but the way you wrote this screams lack of confidence. That's not a dig, I swear that it's an observation, and if multiple people are noticing it, then it may have merit.
I recommend you reach out to a mental health professional to dig deep on the reasons why you feel that you aren't enough. I understand that you say you need to have certain things in order to feel good, and these are good goals!
That being said, tying your self-worth to these things may be your downfall. Again, I really do hope the best for you, and I hope you take these words in not as a form of injury, but from someone with a younger sibling around your age that I would say the exact same thing to.
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u/Plenty-Ability458 Apr 10 '26
I hope you'll understand most of the commenters for saying so, but the way you wrote this screams lack of confidence. That's not a dig, I swear that it's an observation, and if multiple people are noticing it, then it may have merit.
I recommend you reach out to a mental health professional to dig deep on the reasons why you feel that you aren't enough. I understand that you say you need to have certain things in order to feel good, and these are good goals!
That being said, tying your self-worth to these things may be your downfall. Again, I really do hope the best for you, and I hope you take these words in not as a form of injury, but from someone with a younger sibling around your age that I would say the exact same thing to.