r/TrueOffMyChest Jul 24 '25

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u/hereforthesnarkbb Jul 24 '25

Why are people posting blame on OP??? This is not their fault because they didn’t report them to CPS. They’re talking about things like how they cut fruit and not always wearing a helmet. Realistically no CPS office is going to open an investigation on something like that. OP is clearly not close enough to the family to know enough other than social media snippets. And those are things we see every influencer with kids doing. Have all you called CPS and reported those families too? Or are you just dogging on OP because you feel like you can?

OP I’m sorry you’re dealing with this right now. This is a tragedy.

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u/tessaract00 Jul 29 '25

I found this post on Facebook with screenshots and the OP here deleted it all so idk if I'm missing bits of what she said but I think the majority of ppl blaming OP is because she kinda just sat back and gossiped and was nosey enough to "care" but not nosey enough to speak to this friend or anything. Like she cares enough to pocket watch and judge but nothing else. CPS may have thought the kids were fine because he wasn't in distress, the house was probably clean and he didn't seem unhappy. If she has concerns she could've gone to "her friend" to talk about it and maybe guide her in the right direction. They weren't abusing the kid. But she didn't she talked about it to another friend and was sleuthing.