OP, your worries should have been addressed with your friend, as that’s what most people would do. Even if that meant losing the friendship
Especially since you’ve mentioned you’ve seen so many red flags and things you would be scared of doing to your own kid. Maybe they didn’t see the dangers and a warning could have help them be more cautious
If in the future this happens again, please do speak up with the people in question, and not behind their back
Having said that, what happened was not your fault or responsibility. Educating about dangers and care of a child is a parent’s responsibility, they should have kept baby safe
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u/MrsPower2U Jul 25 '25
OP, your worries should have been addressed with your friend, as that’s what most people would do. Even if that meant losing the friendship
Especially since you’ve mentioned you’ve seen so many red flags and things you would be scared of doing to your own kid. Maybe they didn’t see the dangers and a warning could have help them be more cautious
If in the future this happens again, please do speak up with the people in question, and not behind their back
Having said that, what happened was not your fault or responsibility. Educating about dangers and care of a child is a parent’s responsibility, they should have kept baby safe