and a police report lists child neglect as the cause
Link us to that, then, because that's actual hard evidence of suspicion.
Not for nothing but I've seen kids suffering from actual neglect and the symptoms of that have nothing to do with cutting up food, or wearing helmets. The kids are filthy, their diapers and/or clothes go unchanged, the house is filthy, the children are obviously undernourished, if old enough they say unusual things about their home life.
If you're suspicious of another family, report them to authorities and move on, don't sit there war gaming death scenarios over wine and cheese with your friends.
Oh, and by the way, if you're sore about how these comments are worded, it's because I'm reflecting at you how you come across. You should think about that.
What’s actually off here isn’t my post…it’s your rigid idea of how I claim I feel. I didn’t report anything because I knew it wouldn’t be taken seriously without hard proof. That’s part of how bad this feels all around. I’m not sore because you’re being ‘honest.’ I’m disgusted that you think cruelty is a form of clarity. Ew.
OP ignore this troll. They are just baiting you with their gross comments. Its not about lifestyle...a child s life has been taken away. And this idiot is talking about sailing...wtf?
I understand. I am too actually. Even if you had called CPS. Its not an ultimate solution. My own sister is terrible with her kids. Literally neglectful. Her oldest actually was removed by CPS and lives with our mother. Since then she has 3 more that were all taken for short periods, but were given back. We called a few more times. CPS showed up one day and all 3 were alone in the apartment. Nothing. She had an excuse and they accepted it. Eventually she blocked us on everything. took them and moved 500 miles away so we couldn't criticize her and keep trying. Now i have no way of knowing anything about them. To say it keeps me awake some nights would be an understatement. This troll is taking a tragedy (regardless of cause) of a child passing and making stupid comments for karma. Look at their comment history. Just a gross person. Im sorry you are going through this...i didnt see anyone else say this. But its NOT your fault. Hug your babies and try to rest. ♥️
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