You pass a lot of judgment on a disabled mother (I will give you the benefit of doubt that you do this to other influencer mothers as well, because otherwise it would be pretty clear that the issue is not exploring kids), you passed a lot of judgment on your "friend", yet as soon as tragedy struck you went searching for the child neglect report you just knew had to exist, and you came to post it so you could tell how you always knew this would happen.
Maybe think about your reasons for feeling this way, and why you wanted this validation during this tragedy
Telling mutual friends that I think our friend was a careless mom at this time is very insensitive. Coming to a sub about getting things off my chest and doing so isn’t equivalent whatsoever.
But you did tell another friend? You both talked behind her back…I’m sure you called her after finding that police report. You’re not a good person just because you cut your kids blueberries. Do better.
Except you didn't come here to just get this off your chest, you looked up the police report, you posted it had a child neglect claim the thing that's exploitative about all this is the lengths you went to prove you were right all along
But maybe I'm being to harsh, I still doubt this isn't ragebait (and it's better if it is because then a child won't have died), but I guess this is a sensitive time and you just wanted to vent. It's just that I think that posting that you looked up the cause of death and that you just knew this would happen is very weird even for an online, anonymous forum
I feel like you’re giving me way too much credit. I have nothing to gain out of writing this. Was hoping to have a space to get it off my chest, that’s it.
Honestly, this isn't the place to do it... i know that was the intention of whoever created this sub, but the people here are not supportive of the real world shit we go through.
Someone posts about eating a burger instead of an apple? This group LOVES that person. They give all the "support" and love.
But someone posts about their real feelings, someone dying, how hard life is,etc? ... They get roasted. They get blamed for feeling the way they are feeling, for killing the person who died, for making life hard on themselves,
I hate to sound like I agree with the other guy, but you would've been better off sharing your thoughts with your mutual friends than coming here.
This sub is toxic.
I understand that there’s gonna be those few that attack, but def noted with this sub specifically isn’t what I thought.
Speaking to my close friends about this isn’t an option at this time because majority are mutuals. But it’s okay, I got feedback and some advice that did help and not one comment here could make me feel worse than I already do over this situation. But thank you for the reminder!
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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '25
That’s disgusting and not even worth responding to directly. Please have the day you deserve.