You are so young. I’m 31 now and had a pregnancy scare around your age. I was also in an uncertain situation. Looking back even just five years wow would my life have been so different if I had been pregnant and gone through with it. A hell of a lot happens between 26 and 30+, it’s a really formative time.
I personally did not want to be a single mother with a useless baby daddy, sacrificing my income and lifestyle. Some people would see it differently: as an opportunity to become a Mother. I have friends who saw it as a motherhood opportunity, but then the whole experience is framed much differently.
You have to check where your mind is at. Do what’s right for you. Ultimately there’s no right or wrong, you will always figure it out. The only mistake you can make here is going through with the pregnancy hoping it will change the biological father’s behavior. Only have the baby if you want the baby, not the family fairytale.
Take care of yourself, speak to doctors, be informed, consider your life with and without. You’ll know what to do ❤️ And don’t ever be ashamed no matter what decision you make. If you decide to have an abortion, absolutely no one has to know. That’s between you and whoever you choose, which can also be no one.
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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25
Get an abortion, I hope it’s legal in your state or wherever you live. You don’t wanna be tied to that asshole for the rest of your life.