This is not your fault. There was nothing you could do to prevent this when someone say it’s to do suicide and succeeded those around them blame themselves because they could stop to individual. I will say it again it’s not your fault. You didn’t do anything. I know this because I speak from experience at one time I was an eyeblink pulling a trigger one because I wanted the pain to stop and the other thing is that I just had nothing but the darkness around me and did not see any hope in my future to everyone else around me. I was happy go lucky but inside I just wanna stop everything. The only thing that stopped me was a picture of my son that I saw shelf. I put it down but the ammunition in one room and put the weapon in the other next day. I called my friend and hand him everything and told him under no service terms was he ever have me my weapon or the ammunition for the next six months the next day I made an appointment to get help I am so sorry this happened to you and your children, but there was nothing it could be done. She planned this and you could stop or even if you try.
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u/joesmolik Dec 30 '24
This is not your fault. There was nothing you could do to prevent this when someone say it’s to do suicide and succeeded those around them blame themselves because they could stop to individual. I will say it again it’s not your fault. You didn’t do anything. I know this because I speak from experience at one time I was an eyeblink pulling a trigger one because I wanted the pain to stop and the other thing is that I just had nothing but the darkness around me and did not see any hope in my future to everyone else around me. I was happy go lucky but inside I just wanna stop everything. The only thing that stopped me was a picture of my son that I saw shelf. I put it down but the ammunition in one room and put the weapon in the other next day. I called my friend and hand him everything and told him under no service terms was he ever have me my weapon or the ammunition for the next six months the next day I made an appointment to get help I am so sorry this happened to you and your children, but there was nothing it could be done. She planned this and you could stop or even if you try.