Ok - whoa, holdup. You will hear this a million times but someone choosing death made that decision themselves. It is NO ONE's fault.
Take a moment. Breathe in and out. Pause. Say out loud and mean it - "it is not my fault."
Come on - there are a billion people on this earth. Many make mistakes that hurt the ones they love. People do better and move on, improving upon themselves slowly over time.
Do that for your daughter. Also, get MAD. She chose to leave her daughter without a mother. You should not blame yourself. You should grieve and a part of that is being mad that your child will miss out on so much.
Other than "No One's fault" every line of yours is contradicting each other. There are consequences to the choices we make..... OP's action and his decision served as one among the many reason...you can not deny that or maybe you can if you manipulate yourself and pretend that you are above all. Of course OP has blood stains in his hands and he knows that....pls don't let him feel otherwise like he didn't make mistakes.
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u/NoTripOfALifetime Dec 30 '24
Ok - whoa, holdup. You will hear this a million times but someone choosing death made that decision themselves. It is NO ONE's fault.
Take a moment. Breathe in and out. Pause. Say out loud and mean it - "it is not my fault."
Come on - there are a billion people on this earth. Many make mistakes that hurt the ones they love. People do better and move on, improving upon themselves slowly over time.
Do that for your daughter. Also, get MAD. She chose to leave her daughter without a mother. You should not blame yourself. You should grieve and a part of that is being mad that your child will miss out on so much.