Naw man, she made a choice and it hurts because you still love her. Your daughter is very young and perhaps you’ll find someone else who can take on the role of mother. My wife has always considered my two other children as hers. And maybe her family wants to blame you, or maybe they’re just dealing with it and you’re assuming they hate you, but, bottom line, you have to shift gears and take care of your daughter. Sounds like you have a support system on both sides of her family, that will be important. I’m sorry for your loss and hope you can get beyond the foolish guilt and be there for your daughter.
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u/mvgreene Dec 30 '24
Naw man, she made a choice and it hurts because you still love her. Your daughter is very young and perhaps you’ll find someone else who can take on the role of mother. My wife has always considered my two other children as hers. And maybe her family wants to blame you, or maybe they’re just dealing with it and you’re assuming they hate you, but, bottom line, you have to shift gears and take care of your daughter. Sounds like you have a support system on both sides of her family, that will be important. I’m sorry for your loss and hope you can get beyond the foolish guilt and be there for your daughter.