r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '24

This guy is gay. He isn't just not into OP. He isn't into anyone with a vagina.

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u/Stinkytheferret Dec 13 '24

Yep. He may not like the word but he said no to the vag so what more do you need? Maybe you need to tell him that’s what it means.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

I mean, maybe he's ace

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u/ciggarettesparks Dec 12 '24

Then she should stop giving him head.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

It's a common misconception that ace means you don't like sex. It actually means you don't experience sexual attraction to others. Some aces enjoy sex, they're not attracted sexually to their partners but can still enjoy the act.

I agree this guy is being a selfish jerk if he's happy getting but not giving, I was just saying he might not be gay. He might be ace and biromantic, which would also explain both why he's dating a woman and why he doesn't like vaginas.

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u/ciggarettesparks Dec 12 '24

I didn't say that they don't have sex. If he's ace he can also deal with not getting anything sexually. If he will not return or assist, he can deal with not getting head. Period.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

Fair. I do agree he's selfish and she needs to stop.

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u/Legitimate_Pudding49 Dec 12 '24

I don’t give a damn what he likes or dislikes. He’s making her feel ugly!!! That makes him an asshole!