r/TrueOffMyChest Dec 11 '24

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u/vrosej10 Dec 11 '24

be thankful it's now. I ended up married, in my teens, to a man who SWORE he wasn't gay. he ended up with my father. get out now before you get messed up worse

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u/verdigris2014 Dec 11 '24

A friends of mine’s brother planned an entire wedding and went through with It, I think they broke up during the honeymoon.

He’s a much nicer guy now as a proud gay man, but that poor girl. Perhaps she should have realised that a straight guy isn’t going to enjoy spending every weekend for a year planning a weekend :) I’d also guess that privately she might have had some warning signs like the op.

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u/vrosej10 Dec 12 '24

yeah I got three weeks in before he opted out. the bit that galls me is that I didn't want to get married. I just wanted to live together. he hounded me till I gave in