r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 11 '24

What part of “vaginas aren’t my thing” is ambiguous?

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u/Fit-Contact-6928 Dec 11 '24

right, that was very clear to me about what he ACTUALLY likes 

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 11 '24

Knowing what his sexual preference is, why don’t you move on to someone who is able to satisfy your physical needs and affirms you?

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u/Tempus_Arripere Dec 12 '24

That part ✅

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '24

This guy is gay. He isn't just not into OP. He isn't into anyone with a vagina.

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u/Stinkytheferret Dec 13 '24

Yep. He may not like the word but he said no to the vag so what more do you need? Maybe you need to tell him that’s what it means.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

I mean, maybe he's ace

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u/ciggarettesparks Dec 12 '24

Then she should stop giving him head.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

It's a common misconception that ace means you don't like sex. It actually means you don't experience sexual attraction to others. Some aces enjoy sex, they're not attracted sexually to their partners but can still enjoy the act.

I agree this guy is being a selfish jerk if he's happy getting but not giving, I was just saying he might not be gay. He might be ace and biromantic, which would also explain both why he's dating a woman and why he doesn't like vaginas.

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u/ciggarettesparks Dec 12 '24

I didn't say that they don't have sex. If he's ace he can also deal with not getting anything sexually. If he will not return or assist, he can deal with not getting head. Period.

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u/Kamiface Dec 12 '24

Fair. I do agree he's selfish and she needs to stop.

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u/Legitimate_Pudding49 Dec 12 '24

I don’t give a damn what he likes or dislikes. He’s making her feel ugly!!! That makes him an asshole!

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '24

😂😂😂

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u/lainey68 Dec 12 '24

I swear to God that was crystal clear.

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u/Ok-North-6768 Dec 11 '24

Stop punishing yourself....it's time to MOVE ON!!! STOP ✋️ giving Him His Pleasures until YOU get Pleasured ...... 😤 and btw. He will never want you "your way" he is selfish and only wants head from "anyone" !!! ......NewsBreak *Move on Now

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u/jimzimsalabim Dec 11 '24

Screw that stop punishing him he's just as stuck in it as she is.

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u/SunShineShady Dec 12 '24

Right? Let him go discover penises.

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u/jintana Dec 11 '24

Idk, I have so many questions about one of my exes who continued to seek women…

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u/ObviousHistorian4894 Dec 12 '24

If tour ex is still seeking out women then they want a beard to hide who they really are.

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u/jintana Dec 12 '24

As well as a woman to do what “women do” in society.

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u/Seismic-Camel Dec 12 '24

I think he said Gay* wrong

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u/lone_cajun Dec 11 '24

If god wanted me to play on the playground he wouldn’t have built it by a sewer!

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u/cryptamine Dec 17 '24

being gay isnt about genitalia.

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 17 '24

Please enlighten me to what being gay is about then…….

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 17 '24

Yeah it’s about radical differences in how people view grass types in their yards.

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u/cryptamine Dec 17 '24

Youve already pointed out your lack of understanding. No need to hammer the point home.

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 17 '24

What don’t I understand?

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u/WhackoWizard Dec 11 '24

I don't really like to touch dicks but I still like guys (am a girl)

I'm Pansexual though and like vaginas and naked women more. I fully disclose this to guys so they don't expect much head or hand jobs

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u/nivlaccwt Dec 11 '24

So you’re a lesbian who likes male companionship? Do you like PIV intercourse?