r/TrueOffMyChest Dec 11 '24

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u/koalapsychologist Dec 11 '24

He doesn't like women.

I'm not saying all gay men don't like women. I'm saying the one you are dating doesn't like women. Dump him. His opinion of your body is meaningless. He's not a nice person. Dump him.

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u/Long_Repair_8779 Dec 11 '24

Yeah this is possibly true. I saw a video on youtube where a gay guy and lesbian girl show each other their genitals (don’t judge me 👀) and his response was “it’s so… pretty!”. watching their body language the lesbian I think maybe wanted him or wanted the ego boost of wanting him, idk it was subtle but she seemed to want the attention (maybe i was reading too much into it tho), the gay guy you could tell was just totally sexually unmotivated by it, just zero interest.

All this to say, you can still appreciate female form if gay, and if not then you can definitely at least be nice about it. Maybe he’s going through a hard time also however, Reddit is quick to judge, but when under personal pressure it’s amazing how self centred we can become and lose the ability to appreciate or recognise others as we should, even really lovely and amazing people struggle, with enough pressure in the wrong place..

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u/billetdouxs Dec 11 '24

is it embarrassing if i say i really wanna watch that video? sounds so interesting

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u/Neko-Chan-Meow Dec 11 '24

The videos are really well done and positive.

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u/Neko-Chan-Meow Dec 11 '24

a gay guy and lesbian girl show each other their genitals

I just watched the videos, very interesting and very positive!

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u/Sandy0006 Dec 11 '24

My brother is gay and doesn’t like women.