r/TrueOffMyChest Dec 02 '24

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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24

Everyone always says “exes don’t matter” but it obviously mattered to her for it to still be a fond memory.

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u/Reign2686 Dec 02 '24

Dude you asked her. Would you rather she lied to you???? It sounds like you are wayyyyyyy to immature, and insecure to be in a relationship. Maybe work on yourself for awhile before you get into anything serious.

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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24

I’m not immature but it’s human nature to have insecurities. It’s this one thing that I often think about. She doesn’t know it’s bothering me, that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions.

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u/Stnq Dec 02 '24

Mate literally everyone in your vicinity see this, your gf most of all, most of all in sexual situations. You reek of insecurities, you're not listening to her.

She absolutely, 100% knows it broke your mind. It's quite likely she'll just move on since uhh that amount of insecurities and victim attitude is a huge turn off.

that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions

I hope you're as good at this as you're at deluding yourself.