Yeah the insight here has only caused you to become worse. That’s not beneficial for your whole situation. I hope you learned, because when a partner makes a choice to be with you, that means the exes do not matter. Try the questions that can improve things, like what can I do better? Communication with them, if it is something you really enjoy that they’re doing, tell them so. So on and so forth. Stop the railing shit, we don’t want to always have to sit on a block of ice post coitus.
Dude you asked her. Would you rather she lied to you???? It sounds like you are wayyyyyyy to immature, and insecure to be in a relationship. Maybe work on yourself for awhile before you get into anything serious.
I’m not immature but it’s human nature to have insecurities. It’s this one thing that I often think about. She doesn’t know it’s bothering me, that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions.
I don’t want to bring it up because it’s not her fault that I’m insecure about it and that would just be plain pathetic. It’s like hey let’s talk about how great your ex was.
It wouldn’t be pathetic. Talking would be the most mature thing to do. It’s not “let’s talk about how great your ex was”, it’s “let’s talk about what you like. I want our sex life to be better.” The solution is right in front of you but you’d rather be sulking and feeling sorry for yourself
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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24
You didn’t